Romance remains among the experiences most written about but least understood. But it is beginning to be demythologized and taken more seriously. In many cultures it is “ a sacred form of insanity,’’ as family therapist Frank Pittman has written. Like every other kind of illness romance tells us a lot about what’s lacking in us-and what to do about it. If, for example, we think about episodes from our own personal romantic histories, we can learn what we are missing, and then consider what we need to do to grow and change.
For ages women have come together over coffee, cocktails, or late night phone chats to analyze the puzzling behavior of men. We think that men are not complicated, although they’d like you to think they are. And there are no mixed messages. The truth is men’s actions show how they feel.
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